BFF Blues

I had been watching one too many "buddy movies" lately and it's made me depressed... it's not even my PMS schedule yet!

So basically, watching I Love You Man and Bride Wars which should be fun movies, actually bummed me out.

Why is that, though? They made me realise that I don't have a proper best friend. I mean, my best friend is actually The BF but in this case, that doesn't really make him a proper one because it has to be a girl. So, I don't have one.

I don't have a best friend that I think about immediately when I want to share something.

Like when I wanna go jogging in the park.

Or when I wanna look fabulous while on a stroll (hahaha!).

Or give the dog a walk.

Or just hang out too much that The BF would get somewhat jealous.

I guess I envy these movie best friends because they have that really deep connection with each other that just wouldn't compare when you're in a close couple. But it's really also my fault for not making the effort to share enough with the friends I already have.

*lightbulb moment*

Wait! What's my problem, again??? I don't have a best friend?

But I've got SEVERAL really great ones!

We've been together for DECADES! What about that photo, huh? I can't believe we looked like that. Jeez. It's a big group, but it was so much fun back in the day. Some had to leave the country or just wanted different things, so we're a little tighter now.

But we go on really nice holidays together...

... and it's always something different each time.

We may not see each other as often as we would like to, but milestones are never missed.

So on the day that I was really bummed out for not having a BFF, they were just a text away (well, several texts actually). Nearly all of them were there that night and it made me feel so fortunate to have them.

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Conrad and Karisha said...

It's better to have several than just one. Hehe...Nice pics...miss ya and ng bkda hehe...

August 24, 2009 at 5:43 AM
eMz said...

awww, thanks guys! can't wait to see more of the little one! XD

August 24, 2009 at 11:49 AM
zuveena said...

really? is always nice and i think in im own personal opinion that it is better to have one than several or lots, i guess if u got several that means u have group of friends but i the word bestfriend doesn't fit for it isn't it? bestfriend is the one where you shared secrets a secrets that ultimately binds you together wherever u and u will be...i would day i got one, i seldom consider an individual a friend, much more of a bestfriend maybe a comrade but the one i got i would say is awesome coz way back when i was still in the philippines we used to buy things that almost the same and we like same things as well almost but of course not guya..whew!!! till now we still talk n the life we had had together was great an experience that we always look back...i believe the saying goes that one is enough two is too much n three is a crowd...anyway nice post...

August 24, 2009 at 11:46 PM
a\bajoie said...

waaahhhhh the evolution of the patok!! hehehe....

enjoyed sharing my time with you guys and sharing my innermost secrets and stuffs din. im glad i have you guys in my life and looking forward for many many more years of laughter, fun, sadness, conflicts, etc..etc...... till death do us part... hehehehe

August 26, 2009 at 8:56 AM
eMz said...

madrama, joy! hahaha!

ahlabyoo prens! XD

August 26, 2009 at 11:44 AM
sharma said...

aha!!! kaya pala panic mode tayo sa podium nun! hehehe

i totally agree with you...i also don't have a single BFF...i have patok!!!

September 4, 2009 at 5:55 AM
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